- I’m happy with my body; I love exercising and keeping in shape.
- I take good care of my health through eating well.
- I take care of my appearance; I am happy with the way I present myself.
- I accept and like my unique personality. I enjoy who I am, as well as who I’m becoming.
On the opposite of Ascendant, Descendant represents our relationships with others. When this life area is properly functioning, we may feel one or more of the following:
- My spouse/partner believes in me and wants the best for me.
- I’ve met my match.
- I am appreciated for being me.
- I’m surrounded by amazing people.
At the zenith of the chart, Midheaven represents our career – when this aspect of our life is functioning well, we may feel some of the following:
- I know what my work in life is.
- I’m being recognized in my field.
- I’m making a good contribution to my field.
- I love what I do.
At the nadir of the chart, IC represents our family and emotional foundation*. When this life area is working well, we might say:
- There is a place I belong to.
- I love my home.
- Family comes first.
- My family is loyal to me, and I to them – we stand up for each other.
So we can see that the four Angles of the birth chart represent key areas that anchor our life to the present. This is why it tends to bring up fear we when we see that one or more of these life areas are about to change – it may feel like one corner of the table suddenly got taken out.
The Importance of Anchors For Success
Often when a man is about to make a huge career change, his wife can be the one that encourages him to do so, through her faith in his potential to succeed (we can probably say the same for women, but I haven’t heard too many stories on that side.) Or, if one day he loses his job, the thought of his family could be the single motivating force that propels him to seek another work. So we can see that the changes involving the 10th house (career) become easier to manage if one is securely anchored in 4th and/or 7th house (as well as his faith in himself, i.e. the Ascendant.)
In an extreme scenario, suicide or other mental illnesses may result if one is unable to anchor himself in one or more of the 4 life areas for a prolonged period. Such a person may lose the sense that he/she “belongs” to this world, and pursue varied ways to escape. This may result in depression or addiction, if not outright self destruction.
Conclusion: What It Means to Fit Into The World
Most of us are vulnerable in one or more key anchor areas of life, since none of us have a perfect family or a relationship (or perfect personality and body.) The thing is, anchors tend to reinforce each other – so doing well in one area is usually good for the other. By growing in each of these areas, our sense of security and effectiveness in the world increase, thereby giving us confidence that says “I can fit in just fine.”
What anchors you securely in the world? Does that allow you to take more risks in another area? If an anchor in your life is being pulled out right now, where else can you go for support? The horoscope speaks eloquently about each of the 4 Angles – for example, you may have a concentration of planets in one area, making it the key anchor of your life. Feel free to share your thoughts and experiences through emails or comment.
*’family’ here can come to include one’s nation, or some other kinds of brotherhood that give us a sense of belonging.
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